You Can Hear Us In The Streets

Season 1 | Ep 22: "Where Does The Church Go Now?"

Ben Wyman — Thu, 23 Jun 2022 11:09:00 +0000

It's Jim Welch's last few days on the job, and before he leaves, he sits down with Ben to talk about what he's seen in his time here, what he's excited about for the church, and the changes that he hopes to see coming.

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Season 1 | Ep 21 "The Best Clapbacks In The Bible: New Testament Edition"

Ben Wyman — Thu, 16 Jun 2022 18:55:00 +0000

It's Jordan's last podcast, and so she and Ben continue on to part two of their tournament, debating the best comebacks in the New Testament.

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Season 1 | Ep 20: "The Best Clapbacks In The Bible Tournament: Old Testament Edition"

Ben Wyman — Fri, 10 Jun 2022 11:09:00 +0000

For Jordan's last podcasts, she and Ben return to an idea that they've been wanting to do for months - having a tournament of the best clapbacks in the Bible. What's a clapback? Tune in and see.

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Season 1 | Episode 19: "What Should Our Response To The Shooting In Uvalde Be?"

Ben Wyman — Thu, 26 May 2022 22:50:53 +0000

After the shooting in Uvalde, Ken and Ben ditched their podcast plans and sat down to talk about how to respond to a tragedy like this, and what a Christian's response to events like these should be.

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Season 1 | Episode 18: "How Do I Witness To Someone Who Is Suddenly Interested In God, or, Booking A One-Man 'Mamma Mia' Show"

Ben Wyman — Fri, 20 May 2022 11:00:00 +0000

Answering a question about evangelism, Jim, Ben, and Jordan end up speaking about matters of physics, the beginnings of the universe, the sheep and the goats, Pascal's wager, Nietche's "God is dead," and a whole lot of other stuff we didn't expect when we hit record on this podcast.

Enjoy!

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Season 1 | Episode 17: "Does A Translated Bible Not Give Us Enough Context, or, Learning About The Polka of the Trinity"

Ben Wyman — Wed, 11 May 2022 17:58:07 +0000

A reader sends in a Twitter link about a possible mistranslation of a Scripture passage, and it leads to some combatitiveness over different Biblical translations, trying to read multiple* Biblical translations, and a surprising argument over whether we should be bothering to read the Old Testament at all.

*https://twitter.com/lllogannnnn/status/1520393475790979072, though it looks like the user has moved to private.

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Season 1 | Episode 16: "Why Don't We Say 'He Descended Into Hell' In The Apostles' Creed Anymore, or, Life In A Flaming Garbage Dump"

Ben Wyman — Thu, 14 Apr 2022 11:14:00 +0000

The phrase "He descended into hell" was removed from the Apostles' Creed a long time ago, and a listener wants to know the reason why.

Of course, that leads to a lot of much bigger questions about the nature of hell, the humanity of Jesus, and what answers preachers are supposed to give to tough questions.

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Season 1 | Episode 15: "Are We Doing Palm Sunday Completely Wrong, Or, We Have This Great Idea Involving Sheep"

Ben Wyman — Thu, 07 Apr 2022 11:46:00 +0000

With Palm Sunday approaching, a question comes in of whether we're celebrating the day completely wrong. Why is it a joyous celebration if we're remembering the crowds that turned on Jesus only 5 days later?

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Season 1 | Episode 14 pt. 2: "Do Interim Pastors Come In With Preconceived Ideas, Or, Stop Buying Jim So Many Fountain Pens"

Ben Wyman — Fri, 01 Apr 2022 11:33:00 +0000

Part two of our conversation, and it turns out there's almost nothing that Jim can't talk about for hours on end, and it's a fascinating ride. We start with "what's going to be happening at the church?" and end up at "is there a true limit on the universe?" in very short order.

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Season 1 | Episode 14 Pt. 1: "Introducing Jim Welch, or, The Elephant In The Room"

Ben Wyman — Fri, 25 Mar 2022 11:00:00 +0000

If you've been aware of what's been happening at First Methodist, you'll know: it's been a very topsy-turvy week. Here to hopefully settle some things down is interim pastor Jim Welch, who answers some questions and allows us to start getting to know him a little bit.

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Season 1 | Episode 13: "How Have You Seen Covid Positively and Negatively Affect Ministry, or, Getting Less Than Maximum Jordan"

Ben Wyman — Fri, 18 Mar 2022 11:33:00 +0000

Amanda, Ken, Jordan, and Ben talk about some positive sides to how their ministry has changed over the course of Covid, while admitting that they've seen the church atrophy in some ways over the past two years.

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Season 1 | Episode 12: "How Do You Forgive Someone You Can't Forgive, Or, Hurt People Hurt People"

Ben Wyman — Thu, 10 Mar 2022 12:19:00 +0000

A listener talks about how a betrayal from a long time ago has left them unable to forgive the person who wronged them. The group discusses the difficulty of forgiveness, how to work towards reconciliation, and the things inside ourselves that keep us from moving forward.

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Season 1 | Episode 11: "Women Shouldn't Be Pastors, or, Why Amanda Still Has Student Loans"

Ben Wyman — Fri, 04 Mar 2022 12:44:00 +0000

A member comes from a faith tradition that doesn't allow for female clergy, so they're asking whether there should be pastors who are women or not. Jordan and Amanda talk about female preaching and leadership in the Bible, their journeys to get to where they are now, and some of the road bumps they've run into.

Oh, and if you're looking for the Instagram picture we're talking about, it's here.

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Season 1 | Episode 10: "Can A Group Be Christian And Still Be A Cult, Or, We're Buying A Yacht!"

Ben Wyman — Thu, 24 Feb 2022 12:01:00 +0000

Andy, Ken, and Ben are divided on the nature of bad churches and whether they can still do good, which leads to Andy coming out against the Bible (not really. Or does he?), and Ken announcing that First Methodist is going to war. There are some stirring pronouncements about the spiritual character of Houston, and at the end of it all, we try and buy Andy a yacht.

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Season 1 | Episode 9: "What Practices Return You To A Place Of Peace, Or, Romance Starts At Waffle House"

Ben Wyman — Thu, 17 Feb 2022 12:11:00 +0000

A question about finding peace and rest gives us stories about various intentional practices, romantic dinners at Waffle House, and the time Amanda thought she was going to die at Disney World.

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Season 1 | Episode 8: "Why Do We Say The Sinner's Prayer If It's Not In The Bible, Or, How To Purchase Hell Insurance"

Ben Wyman — Thu, 10 Feb 2022 12:01:00 +0000

The group takes a question about why the church has embraced the Sinner's Prayer when it never appears in the Bible, leading to a brief history of revivals and the Sinner's Prayer, plus the questionable theology we keep running into, and figuring out just what our role is in bringing people to Christ.

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Season 1 | Episode 7 - "The Importance of Confession, Or, How Not To Get Stuck In a Confessional In South Korea" "

Ben Wyman — Thu, 03 Feb 2022 12:17:00 +0000

The gang fields a question about how John Wesley treated confession, and how the church treats it today. It turns out to be a fertile topic, featuring some wide-ranging stories from everyone's experience, and a very specific callout of a certain church nearby.

Send us a question or a comment, and help shape what the next episode of the show could be. You can reach us at fmhouston.com/streets.

Season 1 | Episode 6 - "What Does It Mean To Be Blessed, Or, Can You Be Ordained If You Don't Love 'Sweet Caroline?'"

Ben Wyman — Sat, 29 Jan 2022 12:36:00 +0000

This week, the group has a question to wrestle with, as they explain what Jesus was doing when he changed the use of the word "blessed" in the Sermon on the Mount. Along the way, the group debates whether Jordan's opinions are going to ruin her chances of being ordained.

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Season 1 | Episode 5: New Year's Resolutions, Or, Don't Lock Yourself Out Of Your Apartment

Ben Wyman — Thu, 13 Jan 2022 14:00:00 +0000

With cases on the rise, the group heads back to recording remotely. It's the first time for our newest hosts, and it takes some getting used to. Meanwhile, Andy locks himself out of his apartment.

Ask us a question! Since the season began, we have yet to get a single new question. Help us fix that.

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Season 1 | Episode 4: What We Learned This Year, or, How To Live On The Ship of Theseus

Ben Wyman — Thu, 30 Dec 2021 12:00:00 +0000

The podcast starts off with Ken finally revealing what, exactly, took place at the Coneby Christmas Barn, before the group talks about the ways that 2021 surprised them, changed them, and made them look at the world differently.

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Season 1 | Episode 3: Finding The Christmas Spirit, Or, Directions For Mugging Andy On Christmas Eve

Ben Wyman — Thu, 23 Dec 2021 12:01:00 +0000

With Christmas upon us, the group talks about what things they do to find the Christmas spirit each year, and what traditions their families have kept to make Christmas Eve feel like an actual celebration of the birth of Christ. What they mostly find is that everybody has some pretty weird traditions in their family.

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Season 1 | Episode 2: Opening The Christmas Toads

Ben Wyman — Thu, 16 Dec 2021 12:00:00 +0000

The group talks about how to get your family into the correct Christmas spirit, and accidentally spoils the secret that Santa isn't real (beware of listening with your kids around!). As a result, we get some unorthodox Christmas traditions, and the story of the time Ken successfully caught Santa Claus.

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Season 1 | Episode 1: "Ask Me Anything" Is Now "You Can Hear Us In The Streets!" - Andy Nixon, Ken Coneby, Jordan Czichos, & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 09 Dec 2021 11:00:00 +0000

We're back! After a long pause and some retooling, the podcast has returned, with a new vision and title that's easier to find on web searches. "Ask Me Anything" is now "You Can Hear Us In The Streets" (for reasons explained in the podcast), and we use our first episode to introduce one of our new cohosts, Jordan Czichos, and talk about how to prepare your heart for Christmas during a difficult Advent.

We're still looking for your questions! Send us a question at fmhouston.com/ama and we'll include it in the show.

Ask Me Anything: “It’s Been A Year Since George Floyd’s Death. Has Anything Changed?” – Andy Nixon, Donyale Fraylon, Ken Coneby, and Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 27 May 2021 13:00:00 +0000

It is Donyale’s last podcast, and the group talks about the year of ministry that followed George Floyd’s death – the way their approach to ministry changed, and the need to be a church calling for justice. It’s a reconsideration of faith in politics, and call for faith in politics.

The Ask Me Anything Podcast will be on a brief hiatus, but will return with new co-hosts later this summer! In the meantime, send us new questions at fmhouston.com/ama.

"I Feel Like My Faith Has Atrophied Since The Pandemic, What Do I Do?" - Andy Nixon, Donyale Fraylon, Ken Coneby, & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 20 May 2021 12:00:00 +0000

On a very loose podcast, the group tries to answer what to do when you feel you need your faith back, and how you're doing better than you think you are.

This podcast sounds undedited, but trust me, it is very edited.

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Ask Me Anything: “Are We Ignoring All Incarcerated People By Only Talking About Black Imprisonment?” – Andy Nixon, Donyale Fraylon, Ken Coneby, and Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 13 May 2021 13:00:00 +0000

A follow-up question about the New Jim Crow podcast series asks if the conversation about black imprisonment is perhaps too one-sided. The group… does not agree!

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Ask Me Anything: “The New Jim Crow, Pt. 3 – ‘We Aren’t All Free To Not Be Tired’” – Ken Coneby, Kenneth Jackson & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 06 May 2021 13:00:00 +0000

As we wrap up our discussion on Michelle Alexander’s “The New Jim Crow” with Trinity United Methodist Church, Kenneth Jackson returns to the conversation to address the problems of trying to address a system built to consistently, repetitively keep people down. It leads to a discussion about what the church – and what we, as individuals – are required to do by our love of Jesus and willingness to follow his direction.

The discussion will continue in the coming weeks, depending on what you ask us about! Reach out to us with a question: fmhouston.com/ama.

Ask Me Anything: “The New Jim Crow, Pt. 2 – ‘There’s More Than One America’” – Donyale Fraylon, Anthony Rogers, Kenneth Jackson, & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 29 Apr 2021 13:00:00 +0000

In the middle chapters of “The New Jim Crow,” Michelle Alexander breaks down racism baked into the justice system, and the group talks about being raised with different expectations, and passing those lessons along to their children. Plus, the exhaustion that comes with constantly being teachers, but the responsibilities we have to educate the people that we talk to.

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Ask Me Anything: “The New Jim Crow, Pt 1 – Colorblindness Is The Problem” – Andy Nixon, Donyale Fraylon, & Deirdre Barrett

Ben Wyman — Thu, 22 Apr 2021 12:45:00 +0000

On our first podcast discussing “The New Jim Crow,” Andy and Donyale are joined by Trinity United Methodist’s Deirdre Barrett. The group discusses what stands out in the early chapters of Michelle Alexander’s book, including her statement that “colorblindness is not the answer, it’s the problem.”

The discussion fans out into the call each member felt like the book put on them, including learning to find beauty in diversity without being threatened by it, and trying to find an equal amount of justice and forgiveness.

The discussion will continue for two more weeks! Got a question? Visit us at fmhouston.com/ama.

"What Are Your Favorite Bible Stories (And Why?)" - Andy Nixon, Donyale Fraylon, Ken Coneby, and Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 15 Apr 2021 14:20:00 +0000

A pretty straightforward question leads to a surprisingly fun and revealing conversation as the group each talks about their favorite sections of the Bible.

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Ask Me Anything: “Were The People In Noah’s Time Worse Than People Today?” – Andy Nixon, Donyale Fraylon, Ken Coneby, & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 08 Apr 2021 13:00:00 +0000

The group considers the people God chose to destroy in the story of Noah’s ark, and point out the flaws inherent in comparing ourselves to people in the past, both for good and for bad.

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"Is The Resurrection Real Or Just A Metaphor?" - Andy Nixon, Donyale Fraylon, Ken Coneby, & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 01 Apr 2021 12:10:00 +0000

During a very tough recording session, the group fights through to talk about metaphor and reality in the Bible, how to approach the gospels, and dealing with matters of faith and the heart.

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Ask Me Anything: “Did Our Church Have a Historic Role In Slavery and Racism in the South?” - Andy Nixon, Donyale Fraylon, Ken Coneby, & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 25 Mar 2021 13:00:00 +0000

Today’s question covers a wide span – starting with John Wesley’s abolitionist stance, to the division of the United Methodist church in the run up to the Civil War, to its history within Houston and the Civil Rights movement. Plus, a long look at the ways Scripture has been used to maintain white supremacy in America, and an acknowledgement that this conversation can only be had when we recognize our failures – and learn from them.

Books referenced in today’s show:

Jamar Tisby, “The Color of Compromise” (https://www.amazon.com/Color-Compromise-American-Churchs-Complicity-ebook/dp/B07BB6R827)

M. Shawn Copeland, “Enfleshing Freedom” (https://www.amazon.com/Enfleshing-Freedom-Intersections-Innovations-Religious/dp/0800662741/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1CPT8VEKJP48J&dchild=1&keywords=enfleshing+freedom&qid=1616532938&sprefix=enflesh%2Cdigital-text%2C206&sr=8-1)

Our podcast with Trinity UMC regarding “The New Jim Crow” begins next month! Ask us a question: fmhouston.com/ama

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Ask Me Anything: “As Christians, Are We Called To Encourage Others To Get The Coronavirus Vaccine?” - Andy Nixon, Ken Coneby, & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 11 Mar 2021 14:03:56 +0000

Andy, Ken, and Ben debate whether the church has a role in talking about personal health, what our role is when your actions affect the health of the whole community, and how best to talk to friends and family about the vaccine.

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Ask Me Anything: “If We Are To Love Our Neighbor As Ourself… What Happens When We Don’t Love Ourselves?” - Andy Nixon, Donyale Fraylon, Ken Coneby, & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 04 Mar 2021 14:00:00 +0000

A questioner wants to know how you’re supposed to treat other people with compassion when it’s difficult for you to treat yourself the same way.

The gang talks about mental health, how God’s goodness affects how you interact with the world, and get honest about some of their own struggles.

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Ask Me Anything: “I Grew Up During Jim Crow. Won’t Real Racial Change Take A Great Many Generations?” – Andy Nixon, Donyale Fraylon, Anthony Rogers, & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 25 Feb 2021 14:00:00 +0000

A member who remembers growing up with separate schools and water fountains wonders about how long the process will take before full racial healing is reached. The group talks about the process of doing work on yourself, what it means to try and become someone who brings about change, and how we need to pass things on to the next generation after us.

A new podcast series on “The New Jim Crow” is coming soon! Send in your questions at fmhouston.com/ama.

Ask Me Anything: ‘Does The Bible Want Us To Be Afraid Of God?’ – Andy Nixon, Ken Coneby, & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Fri, 12 Feb 2021 20:00:00 +0000

A listener confides that the way the Bible pushes “the fear of God” terrifies them – is that supposed to be the point? The group discusses some of the roots of the term in the Bible, how Jesus fits into all this, and the way we need to be aware of people’s experience when talking about the Bible.

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Ask Me Anything: “Is Brokenness A Good Thing?” - Andy Nixon, Donyale Fraylon, Ken Coneby, & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 04 Feb 2021 13:30:00 +0000

A question asking about whether brokenness is a good thing or not takes the group all over the Bible, through Old Testament and New, as they discuss the various ways God combats brokenness in the Scriptures, and what it is that he desires for us.

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Ask Me Anything: “Is it time for the Church to reject literal interpretations of the Bible?” - Andy Nixon, Ken Coneby, Marty Vershel, & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 28 Jan 2021 14:11:15 +0000

The group sorts through the various ways Scripture is viewed by modern-day Christians, try to differentiate between historical events and metaphorical stories, and knock down some common misconceptions.

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“How Do We Actually Pray For Our Enemies?” – Ken Coneby, Donyale Fraylon & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 21 Jan 2021 14:00:00 +0000

A listener asks a question that came up in their small group - how do you actually pray for your enemies? It seems awfully difficult. And how do you know what to say?

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“What Made You Become A Pastor?” – Andy Nixon, Donyale Fraylon, Marty Vershel & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 14 Jan 2021 14:00:00 +0000

The group discusses what led them to become pastors, and why they abandoned other avenues to head towards ministry. Plus, is it ever too old to enter full-time ministry?

Then, at the group's urging, Ben shares his journey into the world of church media.

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“Isn’t It Relationships That Drive Young People To Church?” – Andy Nixon, Donyale Fraylon, Ken Coneby & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 07 Jan 2021 14:00:00 +0000

A follow up to one of our earlier episodes – Episode 96: “Why Are Young People Leaving The Church?” – an actual young person writes about how relationships helped them maintain their connection to the church, and he finds that to be the magical elixir for other young people who get connected to churches. So what does the group think?

There’s conversation about how to be a person who listens to questions, how to handle questions you don’t know the answers to, and how the long history of the church can help you out of a tough situation even if you don’t know much about it.

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"What Have You Learned In 2020?" - Andy Nixon, Donyale Fraylon, Marty Vershel, & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 17 Dec 2020 14:00:00 +0000

For their last show of 2020, the group looks back on the lessons they learned, the things that they missed the most, and the things they've discovered how to appreciate.

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"Why Is This Christmas So Hard? Why Does Something So Joyous Bring So Much Pain?" - Andy Nixon, Marty Vershel, & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 10 Dec 2020 13:00:00 +0000

Someone who thought Christmas would be easier without all the busyness is discovering that this is a much tougher season than they expected. Andy, Marty, and Ben talk about why so many people find Christmas to be hard, how to handle this year's particular difficulties, and the way loss affects the Christmas season.

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“Is Contemporary Worship Just Going To Replace Traditional Worship?” - Andy Nixon, Donyale Fraylon, Ken Coneby & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 03 Dec 2020 14:19:42 +0000

A question about whether traditional worship’s days are numbered brings out four strong opinions on the nature of worship, experiencing God in all contexts, and how we ignore church history at our own peril.

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“Why Are Young People Leaving The Church” - Andy Nixon, Donyale Fraylon, Ken Coneby, & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 19 Nov 2020 14:53:56 +0000

This commonly-asked question is quickly flipped on its head, as Ken questions the motivations of the people who most frequently ask it. Soon, it becomes a conversation about the way we cling to the church that we already have instead of becoming the new church that we need to be. Also, Andy is very excited to be “the 24th most influential United Methodist podcast.” Here’s the link so you can see what he’s talking about: https://blog.feedspot.com/methodist_church_podcasts/“

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“If Jesus Knocked On My Door In The Middle Of The Night, I Don’t Think I’d Let Him In. What’s Wrong With Me?” – Andy Nixon, Donyale Fraylon, Marty Vershel, & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 12 Nov 2020 14:05:30 +0000

The group talks about the way action creates feeling, the various times Jesus addressed this very thing throughout his ministry, and how to know if you’re asking good questions or just beating yourself up.

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"Why Does The Church Struggle To Talk About Sex In A Life-Affirming, Judgment-Free Manner?" - Marty Vershel, Ken Coneby, Anthony Rogers, & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 05 Nov 2020 13:50:00 +0000

For Marty's first podcast, Ben decides to throw him in the deep end and asks a listener's question he hadn't been allowed to ask before: why does the Church struggle to talk about sexuality? It leads to a surprisingly emotional conversation about the responsibility of a pastor when they stand on a stage, preaching vs. dialogue, and how to handle the reality of abuse and pain among the people you're trying to talk to.

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"Are We Not Making Jesus Relatable Enough?" - Andy Nixon, Ken Coneby, Anthony Rogers, & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Tue, 03 Nov 2020 13:00:00 +0000

Today's question concerns if we are making Jesus "relatable" enough - is he too separate from us, and from our lives? Are we failing the young people we teach? Is that why young people leave the church?

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"Final Questions With Brandi" - Brandi Horton, Andy Nixon, & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 29 Oct 2020 13:00:00 +0000

On Brandi's last week in the office, she sat down with Andy and Ben to answer some final, rapid-fire questions - the things she's most proud of, the things she's most disappointed to leave behind, and as many things as we could suprise her with as possible.

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“Are Women Supposed To Be HEAD Pastors?” - Brandi Horton, Ken Coneby, and Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 15 Oct 2020 12:48:00 +0000

With Brandi on her way to becoming a head pastor of a nearby church, the group answers the question of whether head pastor is actually a role women are supposed to move into, or is that against what the Bible says? Brandi has stories, Bible passages, and books to recommend. Even when she’s not ready for the question... she’s ready for the question. Ask Brandi a question before it’s too late! fmhouston.com/ama

“Would Jesus Vote For President?” - Andy Nixon, Brandi Horton, Donyale Fraylon, & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 08 Oct 2020 13:00:00 +0000

On one of our last few podcasts with Brandi (this is your last chance to send in questions you’d like to hear Brandi answer, so please send those in!), the group takes on how involved Jesus was in government, how much they think he’d be involved today, and what a Jesus-like approach to politics would look like.

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“What Do You Do If Your Partner Loses Their Faith?” - Andy Nixon, Brandi Horton, Ken Coneby & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 01 Oct 2020 13:00:00 +0000

This week the group take on a question dealing with loss of faith in a relationship. They take a look at what causes people to walk away from God and how to both parties can navigate through their wilderness.

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“How Do I Balance Saving Money In A Scary Time and Giving To Those Who Are Struggling?” - Andy Nixon, Brandi Horton, Donyale Fraylon & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 17 Sep 2020 13:00:00 +0000

During such uncertain times, should we be saving our money or sharing our abundance with others who are struggling to keep their heads above water? The group discusses battling the fear or generosity and the emotional side of giving.

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“Should Christians Embrace Or Reject Cancel Culture?” - Andy Nixon, Brandi Horton, Donyale Fraylon & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 10 Sep 2020 13:00:00 +0000

It’s Ben’s birthday! He lays out the definition of cancel culture and opens the floor for the table to discuss it’s place in not only the modern world but also in christian living.

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“Have We Distorted The Image of Jesus By Painting Him As A White Man?” - Andy Nixon, Ken Coneby & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 03 Sep 2020 13:00:00 +0000

Persevering through technical difficulties, Andy, Ken, and Ben answer a piggybacked question for our last podcast about colonization. A questioner asks whether we've screwed everything up by showing Jesus as a white man, and what level of personal interpretation we should bring to the Bible.

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“Would the Global Church Be Where It Is Today Without Colonization?” - Andy Nixon, Ken Coneby, Anthony Rogers & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 27 Aug 2020 13:00:00 +0000

The group takes a close look at the history of evangelism and its lasting impact on native cultures. They strip down the misconceived notions of missionaries as well as the responsibility we bear to be part of the solution to a larger issue.

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“Should We Pray For The Dead?” - Andy Nixon, Brandi Horton, Donyale Fraylon & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 20 Aug 2020 13:00:00 +0000

A listener dealing with the loss of loved ones asks for some guidance on intercessory prayer. The group share their insight dealing with death and filtering through the awkwardness of praying for the dead.

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“How To Address Racism Against The Black Community with Latinx?” - Anthony Rogers, Yesly Antu, Deborah Nixon & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 13 Aug 2020 13:00:00 +0000

Anthony Rogers, Yesly Antu and Deborah Nixon join the conversation to tackle the issue of racism within by Latinx against the black community. They dive into the toxic stereotypes streaming from the history of Hispanic and Latin countries, and the repercussions of comparing oppression. Also, how to combat issues that come from an us vs. them feeling, and the power in learning from each other's stories.

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“How Do We Use Spiritual Practices To Shape How We Experience Scripture?” - Andy Nixon, Brandi Horton, Donyale Fraylon & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 06 Aug 2020 13:09:54 +0000

The table discusses ways of reading spiritual text. Ben starts us off by diving into Ignatius of Loyola and the examen practiced by the Jesuits.

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“What Does Being A Church Actually Look Like Now?” - Andy Nixon, Brandi Horton, Donyale Fraylon & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 30 Jul 2020 13:00:00 +0000

As we continue to settle into the new normal, a questioner wonders how it’ll shape the Church. The table discuss stripping our church norms and embracing simplicity. As well as the new ways online church is changing how we practice discipleship.

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“How Do You Talk About Injustice And Ask Taboo Questions When You Don't Have Answers?” - Brandi Horton, Ken Coneby, Donyale Fraylon & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 23 Jul 2020 13:00:00 +0000

The group explore how they’ve handled difficult but necessary conversations. Donyale reminds us that sometimes the road to peace means disrupting the “peace”.

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“What Does Being a Christian Online Look Like?” - Andy Nixon, Ken Coneby, Donyale Fraylon & Anthony Rogers

Ben Wyman — Thu, 16 Jul 2020 13:00:00 +0000

Tension remains on high consequently fueling the growth of keyboard warriors. A questioner who’s noticed christian friends on opposite sides of the spectrum asks what it looks like to be followers of Jesus online. Donyale shares some words to defuse online courage.

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“What’s The Difference Between Hope and Prayer?” - Brandi Horton, Donyale Fraylon, Anthony Rogers & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 09 Jul 2020 13:00:00 +0000

Anthony joins the table as Ben hosts this weeks episode. A questioner reaches out to get clarity on what separates hope and prayer. The table discusses their practiceses talking with God and explore the limits of hope.

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“Is It Okay To Serve Indirectly?” - Andy Nixon, Brandi Horton, Donyale Fraylon & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 02 Jul 2020 13:00:00 +0000

The group look at the different ways we service and give but also what it means to be humbled by receiving.

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“Does Death Heal Mental Illness?” - Andy Nixon, Brandi Horton, Donyale Fraylon & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 25 Jun 2020 13:00:00 +0000

In death are we healed of our illnesses or does it come with us? The table shares their insight and hope for those struggling with mental health.

If you or someone you know is struggling with mental health contact your mental health professional or other qualified health provider.

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“Was God The Original Racist?” - Andy Nixon, Brandi Horton, Donyale Fraylon & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 18 Jun 2020 13:00:00 +0000

Ben waits to surprises the group with today’s question - was it racist of God to single out the Israelites? The table discusses what Scripture tells us about why He chose the Hebrew people. Andy uses a food metaphor that has everybody questioning what kind of food they are.

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“Conversations at the AMA Table: George Floyd’s Funeral and Houston’s Current Events ” - Andy Nixon, Brandi Horton, Donyale Fraylon & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 11 Jun 2020 13:00:00 +0000

On today’s episode, the group takes an opportunity to have a conversation about the events happening in Houston. Donyale and Andy share their experience at George Floyd’s funeral. They reflect on the impact of these events and what it means for us as a nation.

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“What, Specifically, Should the Church Be Doing in the Face of Evil?” - Andy Nixon, Brandi Horton, Donyale Fraylon, Anthony Rogers & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 04 Jun 2020 13:00:00 +0000

The group take a moment to reflect on their experiences at the downtown march for George Floyd. Bloomed from our Ahmaud Arbery episode, today’s question searches for specific guidance on what the church can do to combat evil and what we as individuals can do.

Below is more information on the book recommendations mentioned in this podcast.

-Divided By Faith, by Michael Emerson -Just Mercy by Bryan Stevenson -The New Jim Crow: Mass Incarceration in the Age of Colorblindness by Michelle Alexander -Jesus and the Disinherited by Howard Thurman -How to be an Antiracist by Ibram X. Kendi -The Post-Racial Negro Green Book by Jan Miles -So you want to talk about race by Ijeoma Oluo

Books for Kids: Roll of Thunder, Hear My Cry by Mildred D. Taylor White Flour by David LaMotte Monster by Walter Dean Myers

The UMC is already helping us talk to our kids. These are books that lift up the sacred worth of every human, no matter their gender, race, ability level, or sexual orientation. https://www.umcjustice.org/sacred-worth-books?fbclid=IwAR20VyKJ3ILh21SXuf5WE_RiboNC6M6LKcMoo0BdxqDtMSrOIMF2TH20ETM

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"Does The Methodist Church Discipline People? Do You Have To Confess Your Sins To A Pastor?" - Andy Nixon, Brandi Horton, Donyale Fraylon, & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 28 May 2020 18:58:41 +0000

A non-member asks whether the Methodist church disciplines members, and if people are required to confess their sins to a pastor or another authority. It leads to a discussion of what rules the Methodist church actually has, the importance of accountability, and how pastors work to try to be someone who stands in your corner rather than punishing you.

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“How Should The Church Respond To The Shooting Of Ahmaud Arbery?” - Donyale Fraylon, Ken Coneby, Anthony Rogers & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 21 May 2020 13:00:00 +0000

Questions of racial justice, privilege and discipleship surface as the group breaks down the murder of Ahmaud Arbery. They reflect on the heavy price payed for racial harmony, the work that still awaits and the steps the church can take to be the champions of love.

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"Did John Wesley Ever Talk About Social Justice?” - Andy Nixon, Brandi Horton, Ken Coneby & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 14 May 2020 13:00:00 +0000

We’re talking about social holiness and what John Wesley meant by it. What that it looks like today and how it differs from how we interpret God defines it.

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“Should American Christians Put Themselves In Harm's Way To Help The World’s Most Vulnerable During This Pandemic?” - Andy Nixon, Brandi Horton, Donyale Fraylon & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 07 May 2020 13:00:00 +0000

All hands are on deck as the group dives deep into examining the consequences the precautionary actions we take to stay safe during the pandemic may have on others around the world. They find themselves wrapped in the same chaos our questioner finds themselves in.

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“Is This A Transformational Moment For The Church?” - Andy Nixon, Brandi Horton, Donyale Fraylon, Ben Wyman & Special Guest Bishop Scott Jones

Ben Wyman — Thu, 30 Apr 2020 13:00:00 +0000

We welcome our first guest to the Ask Me Anything table, Bishop Scott Jones! The group pick each others brains’ on how they’re managing daily life, spouses, parenting and the “new trend” growth during this pandemic. They lean into the changes they’ve seen in how we’re worshiping due to the pandemic and the possible impact on the future of the church

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“Do We Totally Misunderstand Revelations (And Are We Hurting People By The Way We Teach It)?” - Andy Nixon, Brandi Horton, Donyale Fraylon & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 23 Apr 2020 13:00:00 +0000

The group tackles two similar questions regarding the book of revelations. Ben’s pastoral side really shines when discussing the misconceptions of how we read this part of the bible. Everyone shares their experiences learning about the rapture growing up and the Left Behind series.

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“Why Do We Design Our Worship Services The Way That We Do?” - Andy Nixon, Ken Coneby & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 16 Apr 2020 13:00:00 +0000

Today’s question puts the formula of our worship services under a microscope. The group examines what elements of a service really matters and the roles that lay and clergy people play.

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“How Do We Battle Busyness?” - Andy Nixon, Brandi Horton & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Fri, 10 Apr 2020 13:00:00 +0000

Andy, Brandi, and Ben dissect the cons of staying busy for the sake of being busy. Moreover, the struggle to slow down our lifestyle.

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“How Do I Cope As The Covid-19 Quarantine Continues?” - Brandi Horton, Ken Coneby, Donyale Fraylon & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 02 Apr 2020 13:00:00 +0000

The group discuss the different ways they’re each adapting to daily life during the Covid-19 quarantine and the struggle of battling loneliness as a result of social distancing.

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“How Do We Operate In A Pandemic? Are Things Supposed to Change?” - Andy Nixon, Brandi Horton, Donyale Fraylon & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 26 Mar 2020 13:00:00 +0000

The group begins today’s discussion picking up our conversation from last week’s episode and touching on the priesthood of all believers. However, they decide to hijack the question and talk through how they think the current pandemic will effect how we practice being the church.

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“Is it Legitimate to Take Communion At Home?” - Andy Nixon, Brandi Horton, Donyale Fraylon & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 19 Mar 2020 13:00:00 +0000

The group tackle what the rules are in taking communion during extreme times and what make separates communion from a love feast.

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“Why Do We Give Things Up For Lent?” - Andy Nixon, Brandi Horton, Donyale Fraylon & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 12 Mar 2020 13:00:00 +0000

The group discuss what they’re each doing for lent and what they hope to gain from it.

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“Should We Consider Other Interpretations of Scripture, Such As Racial and Feminist Perspectives?” - Andy Nixon, Brandi Horton, Donyale Fraylon & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 05 Mar 2020 14:00:00 +0000

On today’s episode the group tackles the second part of a question they never got around to finishing earlier - should we consider other specific perspectives on the Bible? They reflect on whose interpretation of scripture we tend to acknowledge more and explore what the practice of reading scripture in different environments does to our perspective.

- Don't forget to send in your Lent questions!

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“What Does It Mean To Be A Living Sacrifice?” - Andy Nixon, Ken Coneby, Emil Niz & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 20 Feb 2020 14:00:00 +0000

The group takes a closer look at Romans 12 to discuss how literally to take the idea of being a "living sacrifice." Ken takes the question a step further and ponders if the church falls short in living sacrificially for each other.

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“Why Do We Limit The Bible To Sixty Six Books?” - Andy Nixon, Brandi Horton & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 13 Feb 2020 14:00:00 +0000

Andy and Brandi are ready to charge into today’s conversation on why there is only sixty six books in the Bible. The group finds themselves on different ends of the spectrum as they discuss what the conversation would look like if the canon was opened.

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“Does Scripture Tell Us That God Should Be In Control Of The Government?” - Andy Nixon, Donyale Fraylon, Emil Niz & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 06 Feb 2020 14:00:00 +0000

The group breakdowns the assumption that people who take their own lives don’t go to heaven. David Wyman (Ben’s Dad!) and Ken Coneby join the conversation.

Today's subject deals with suicide, and mentions that suicide crisis lines now have a texting feature. If that's something you'd like to know about, you can find out more at https://www.crisistextline.org/

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“Why Do People Feel Like If Someone Commits Suicide They Can’t Go To Heaven?” - Andy Nixon, Ken Coneby, David Wyman & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 30 Jan 2020 14:00:00 +0000

The group breakdowns the assumption that people who take their own lives don’t go to heaven. David Wyman (Ben’s Dad!) and Ken Coneby join the conversation.

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“Why Do People Believe That The Apostle Paul Hated Women?” - Andy Nixon, Brandi Horton & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 23 Jan 2020 14:00:00 +0000

Our trio discusses what they believe Paul meant in his letters in regards to women in the church.

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“What Does “Blessed Are The Peacemakers” Mean?” (re-upload) - Andy Nixon, Brandi Horton, Donyale Fraylon & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Sun, 19 Jan 2020 14:43:04 +0000

We have a full table this week as the group takes on what it means to be a peacemaker on a personal and global scale.

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“What Does “Blessed Are The Peacemakers” Mean?” - Andy Nixon, Brandi Horton, Donyale Fraylon & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Fri, 17 Jan 2020 15:44:27 +0000

We have a full table this week as the group takes on what it means to be a peacemaker on a personal and global scale.

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“What's Up With This Proposal For Splitting Up The Methodist Church?” - Brandi Horton, Donyale Fraylon & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 09 Jan 2020 22:54:24 +0000

The group returns for the first episode of 2020 to tackle the question everyone has been asking, what is "The Protocol of Reconciliation & Grace Through Separation" proposal and what does it mean for our church?

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“Does God Grant Better Luck To Some Than Others?” - Andy Nixon, Brandi Horton, Anthony Rogers & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 19 Dec 2019 14:00:00 +0000

Someone asks about the phrase "there but for the grace of God go I," and if God really gives better luck to some people than he does others. This one is a question of perspective, and it turns out everyone has a different take.

Merry Christmas! Ask us a question, and we'll get to it in the new year. FMHouston.com/AMA

"Why Is It So Hard For Us To See Mary As A Real Person? How Would We React Today?" - Andy Nixon, Donyale Fraylon, Ken Coneby, & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Fri, 13 Dec 2019 00:39:00 +0000

The group talking about the birth story of Jesus, and how God always moves through truly unexpected people. Then, Andy and Ben tell the story of the Christmas Eve service that almost got them both fired.

Ask us a question! Especially a Christmas one. FMHouston.com/AMA

“What Happens To Those Who Are Cremated And How Does The Church View Cremation?” - Andy Nixon, Brandi Horton, Donyale Fraylon & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 05 Dec 2019 15:41:25 +0000

The group discusses dealing with death and grief and the churches stance on cremation. Ben shares his experience working at a cemetery.

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“Is The Prosperity Gospel A False Gospel?” - Andy Nixon, Brandi Horton, Anthony Rogers & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 21 Nov 2019 14:00:00 +0000

From transactional blessings, iPhones, Kayne West and wealth, the group doesn’t hold back when discussing the prosperity gospel. Anthony Rogers stops by to join the conversation.

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“Why Are Small Groups Important?” - Andy Nixon, Brandi Horton, Emil Niz & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 14 Nov 2019 14:00:00 +0000

The group dives into the importance of being apart of a small group and how different age groups have isolated themselves or navigated towards joining one. Emil Niz joins the conversation to share the small group opportunities available at out West campus.

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“What Role Should Christians Play in Being Better Environmental Stewards ?” - Andy Nixon, Brandi Horton, Ken Coneby & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 07 Nov 2019 16:00:00 +0000

Scripture mentions being good stewards of all creation but what responsibilities do Christians bare in regards to our environment? The group discusses the different challenges they face living in Houston and trying to take of our planet.

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“Is It Okay to Pray Silently?” - Andy Nixon, Brandi Horton, Donyale Fraylon & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 31 Oct 2019 13:00:00 +0000

Out of all the ways there is to pray, does praying out loud really make your prayer more effective? The group breaks down some questionable advice given to a listener about written prayers.

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“Why Do I Find It Harder Forgiving Other Christians Than People Outside The Church?” - Andy Nixon, Donyale Fraylon, Ken Coneby & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 24 Oct 2019 13:00:00 +0000

Is there a difference between christians and people outside the church when it comes to practicing forgiveness? Is it harder to forgive people who claim to be christian but turn their backs on you? Donyale and Ken join the conversations to discuss the hurdles that come with letting go of anger and overcoming difficult situations.

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“Is Speaking in Tongues Relevant Today?” - Brandi Horton, Anthony Rogers & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 17 Oct 2019 13:00:00 +0000

Skeptical on the authenticity of speaking in tongues, a listener asks for some clarity on the spiritual gift and it’s relevancy today. Anthony Rogers joins the conversation as the group shares their experiences speaking in tongues and it’s place not only in the Charismatic Movement but the Methodist church as well.

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"Is Everything In The Bible True Or Is Just There To Make Us Act Better?" - Andy Nixon, Donyale Fraylon, Ken Coneby, & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 10 Oct 2019 11:30:00 +0000

This week, a listener wants to know how much of the Bible they can believe, or if everything is just made up in order to get us to be better people. The answer: some of both! It's complicated! Take a listen.

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“How Do I Identify My Neighbors and Enemies and How Should I Love Them?” - Andy Nixon, Ken Coneby, Emil Niz & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 03 Oct 2019 13:00:00 +0000

In today’s world where communication can be so instant, how can we identify who our enemies and neighbors are? A listener asks how to love our enemies like the Bible tells us to. The group questions if it’s possible to separate a person from their action.

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“What Are We Affirming When We Recite the Affirmation of Faith?” - Andy Nixon, Brandi Horton, Donyale Fraylon & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 26 Sep 2019 13:00:00 +0000

This week the group breaks down the “insider language” in the Affirmation of Faith and the history behind it. Should the Methodist church follow suit like other churches and change the language to be more easily understood or should we bide by tradition? Brandi shares her favorite new creed.

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“I’m Going To Church, In Small Group, Tithing - How Do I Figure Out What Else God Wants From Me?” - Andy Nixon, Brandi Horton, Donyale Fraylon, & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 19 Sep 2019 13:00:00 +0000

The group discusses what to do when you experience the restlessness of feeling like you’re not doing enough. A surprise gift for Ben inspires Andy to send us off in an unprecedented way.

For the curious mind: Below are the links to the material referenced in this episode. Far Side Cartoon: https://i.pinimg.com/originals/a5/ed/03/a5ed0391108aa830e4c8aabfe2fea3d9.png

Ted Loder - Guerrillas of Grace: https://books.google.com/books/about/Guerrillas_of_Grace.html?id=ds0wANApF0IC&source=kp_book_description

“Ah! Sunflower” by William Blake: https://www.poetryfoundation.org/poems/43649/ah-sun-flower

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“What Does Heaven Look Like?” - Andy Nixon, Donyale Fraylon & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 12 Sep 2019 13:00:00 +0000

The group tackles questions about heaven, what it looks like and who/what we’ll find there. Andy shares what his heaven would look like, which means that Ben and Donyale have to try and keep Andy’s puns at bay.

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'Is Jesus To Be Read Figuratively or Literally? And Who Are We To Decide?' – Andy Nixon, Brandi Horton, Donyale Fraylon, & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Fri, 06 Sep 2019 12:00:00 +0000

The group takes a look at "Red Letter Christians," whether we're qualified to translate what we read in the Bible, and the various slants that individuals take on Scripture.

Thoughts? Questions? Ask away: FMHouston.com/AMA

“Is It Wrong For Christians to be Rich?” - Andy Nixon, Brandi Horton, Donyale Fraylon, & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 29 Aug 2019 13:00:00 +0000

The group debates the two messages the Bible seems to send about money - one about giving a portion of your money, the other about giving up all you have to join the church. Which one applies to us? And are we thinking the wrong way about our money?

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“If Vengeance Is The Lord’s, Should Christians Oppose The Death Penalty Via The State Government Or Trust Its Decision?” - Andy Nixon, Brandi Horton & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 22 Aug 2019 13:00:00 +0000

Sadden by the District Attorney’s decision to seek the death penalty for the gunman responsible for the El Paso Walmart mass shooting, a listener struggles with the choice to trust the states decision for justice or oppose it. The group weighs in on the Church’s stance and reflect on the frequency of practice in Texas.

Got a question? Reach us at FMHouston.com/AMA and let us know!

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“What Have You Learned In The Past 3 Years?”- Andy Nixon, Brandi Horton & Kaitlyn Bowie Hankins

Ben Wyman — Thu, 15 Aug 2019 13:00:00 +0000

On Kaitlyn’s last podcast, the group reflects on what they’ve learned in the past three years while working at First Methodist. Their discussion leads them to contemplate the changing dynamics of the church and how it might look in the future.

Got a question? Reach us at FMHouston.com/AMA and let us know!

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“When People See A Big Need And Just Say “I Pray For You” And Not Be The Hands And Feet Of The Lord, Is That Enough?”- Brandi Horton, Emil Niz & Ken Coneby

Ben Wyman — Thu, 08 Aug 2019 13:00:00 +0000

Today’s question has lots of ground to cover, Brandi takes over on this weeks episode with the help of familiar and new voices. A listener questions whether prayer without action is enough.

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“Is There a Similar Need In Today’s Increasingly Secular World To Spread The Word of God As John Wesley Did In The 18th Century? ?” - Andy Nixon, Brandi Horton, Kaitlyn Bowie Hankins, & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Fri, 02 Aug 2019 13:00:00 +0000

Today’s questions comes from a listener who wonders if there is a need to go out into the secular world like John Wesley did in the 18th century, in order to spread the word of God. The group shares some recommended material for another listen who wants to learn more about John Wesley and others like him who formed and shaped the UMC.

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"Is Divorce an Option?" - Andy Nixon, Brandi Horton, Kaitlyn Bowie Hankins & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 25 Jul 2019 13:00:00 +0000

With two Kaitlyn episodes left, we're trying to tackle all of the subjects we can that speak to Kaitlyn's heart. A listener questions whether or not divorce is an option when Scripture suggests it isn't. The group tackles the challenges of marriage, what the Bible really says about divorce, and makes sure to offer help to those who are in need of it.

If you or someone you know if dealing with domestic violence, please don't hesitate to reach out to any of our pastors. As she mentions in this episode, Brandi is always available and ready: bhorton@fmhouston.com

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“How Can I Overcome the Negativity and Sadness of the World?” - Brandi Horton, Kaitlyn Bowie Hankins, Donyale Fraylon, & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 18 Jul 2019 13:00:00 +0000

With Kaitlyn’s last podcast on the horizon, the group keeps going through the topics that Kaitlyn most wants to answer before she goes. The discussion of faith, joy, and facing that perhaps happiness is not the end result of prayer also features new pastor Donyale Fraylon, joining the podcast for the first time.

Got a question? Reach us at FMHouston.com/AMA and let us know!

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'Why Do Methodists Practice Infant Baptism? and Why Wouldn't a Methodist Pastor Rebaptize Someone?' - Andy Nixon, Brandi Horton, Kaitlyn Bowie Hankins, Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 11 Jul 2019 13:00:00 +0000

We're talking baptisms! Andy can't stop the puns from pouring out of him. The group answers why methodists practice infant baptisms and why methodist pastors don't rebaptize.

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‘What Are We Doing About The Crisis At The Border?’ – Andy Nixon, Brandi Horton, and Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 04 Jul 2019 13:00:00 +0000

A political question about the problems at the border camps leads to a lot of different topics, including Christians’ place in the political sphere, the importance of prayer, and the calling God places on us to help the foreigner and the orphan. Includes very light and cautious wading into political waters.

Ask us a question! Or (as you discover when you listen to this episode), send Ben hate mail! FMHouston.com/AMA

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“What Is The Emerging Church and Why Are People Mad At It?” - Kaitlyn Bowie Hankins, Brandi Horton, & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 27 Jun 2019 13:00:00 +0000

Kaitlyn talks about a movement that means a lot to her - the emerging/emergent church (she explains the difference, don’t worry). It leads to a lot of conversation about what the modern church should be trying to do, and why we battle internally over smaller issues.

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“How Do We Bring Unity in a Divided Political Atmosphere, and Should Individuals Seek Greater Gifts?” - Andy Nixon, Kaitlyn Bowie Hankins, Anthony Rogers, & Ken Coneby

Ben Wyman — Thu, 20 Jun 2019 13:00:00 +0000

With the help of some familiar voices, the group takes on two questions this week. One listener asks how we can work together to bring unity in our divided political atmosphere. Another questions whether Paul means individuals should seek greater gifts or the corporate body.

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“What do pastors DO?” - Andy Nixon, Kaitlyn Bowie Hankins, & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 13 Jun 2019 13:00:00 +0000

Andy and Kaitlyn talk about what the life of a pastor is like in practice, talking about some of the more surprising pressures, the oddities of the life, and the problems that happen when your work life bleeds into your private relationships.

Ask us a question! Especially if you have one that you want Kaitlyn to answer. Fmhouston.com/AMA

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“Why Did You Choose To Become Pastors?”- Andy Nixon, Brandi Horton, Kaitlyn Bowie Hankins & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 06 Jun 2019 00:10:00 +0000

The group tells us what led them to become pastors. We explore Brandi’s long list of degrees and Ben shares why he didn’t go “Hollywood”.

Link to the poem mentioned in today's episode: https://www.poemhunter.com/poem/two-tramps-in-mud-time/

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“Why Do We Talk So Much About Money?” - Andy Nixon & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 23 May 2019 20:06:21 +0000

Andy and Ben take a harder-edged question about asking for money head on, and spend some time talking about spending money on bounce houses, why you should show up to church, and the difference between giving to the church and being the church.

Ask us a harder-edged question yourself! Reach us at FMHouston.com/ama.

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'Unfinished Business: Animal Sacrifice & Female Preachers' – Andy Nixon, Brandi Horton, Kaitlyn Bowie Hankins, & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 16 May 2019 13:00:00 +0000

The name of the game is 'Unfinished Business'. The group gets another shot at answering questions from Sunday's live AMA podcast - specifically on two question they want to reconsider: why did we have animal sacrifice, and why do we have female preachers? Meanwhile, Andy and Kaitlyn suggest an interesting read on what Houstonians are really thinking.

The link to that is here : https://kinder.rice.edu/houstonsurvey2019

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'Ask Me Anything Live! (8:45)' - Andy Nixon, Kaitlyn Bowie Hankins, and Brandi Horton

Ben Wyman — Mon, 13 May 2019 12:00:00 +0000

Andy, Kaitlyn, and Brandi have their first EVER live Ask Me Anything podcast on Sunday, in front of the congregation. In this service, they handle questions about why Judas gets a bad rap and whether we will see our Jewish friends in Heaven.

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'Ask Me Anything Live! (11:00)' - Andy Nixon, Kaitlyn Bowie Hankins, and Brandi Horton

Ben Wyman — Mon, 13 May 2019 12:02:00 +0000

Andy, Kaitlyn, and Brandi have their second live Ask Me Anything podcast of the day, and this time they're ready for it. In this service, they handle questions about why God demanded animal sacrifice, what God feels about the Catholic church, and if there's any reason to join a church at all.

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“Questions From Kids!” – Andy Nixon, Brandi Horton, Kaitlyn Bowie Hankins, & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 09 May 2019 13:00:00 +0000

After a Sunday answering questions from kids, the group kicks around some of the questions they got and ponders why it is that straightforward answers from children led to deeper and more meaningful answers.

Ask us a question! FMHouston.com/AMA

“Why Should Someone Choose to be a Methodist Over Another Denomination?” – Andy Nixon, Brandi Horton, & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 02 May 2019 13:00:00 +0000

No denomination is spared after Andy and Brandi are let loose on this week's episode! The group follows up on a AMA question from Sunday about choosing Methodism over other denominations.

Ask us a question!

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“Why Was There An Easter Bunny At Church?” – Andy Nixon, Brandi Horton, Kaitlyn Bowie, & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 25 Apr 2019 13:00:00 +0000

After a brief interlude to answer a question about how our Lenten practices are going, the group delves into a complex question about what discipleship After a big Easter weekend, someone wondered why an Easter bunny was included as part of our celebration – and whether the bunny and the eggs have any extra meaning, or if we’re just letting in some bad traditions.

WARNING: If you still have a tradition of Santa Claus/The Easter Bunny/The Tooth Fairy/etc. in your home, we recommend not listening to this podcast with your kids around.

Ask us a question! Especially now, during this Ask Me Anything series! You may be surprised at how many people want to hear the same thing you do.

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“What If I Don’t Know What Being A Disciple Looks Like?” – Andy Nixon, Brandi Horton, & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 18 Apr 2019 13:00:00 +0000

After a brief interlude to answer a question about how our Lenten practices are going, the group delves into a complex question about what discipleship looks like, what is “enough,” and whether you can be a good disciple while still asking questions like “how much does this cost?”

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Stories from The Holy Land, and “Why Do We Fight So Much Over Biblical Interpretation?” – Andy Nixon, Brandi Horton, Kaitlyn Bowie Hankins, & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 11 Apr 2019 13:00:00 +0000

Andy and Ben are back from their trip to Israel and full of stories from their time traveling there together. Then, the group takes on a question from a listener who has struggled to connect with people who feel quite differently about the Bible than they do.

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‘What Do We Do When Other Religions Go Through A Tragedy Like Christchurch?’ – Andy Nixon, Kaitlyn Bowie Hankins, & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 21 Mar 2019 13:00:00 +0000

After the shooting in New Zealand, a listener asks if the Church is adequately responding to the trauma. Andy, Kaitlyn, and Ben consider empathy and the ways at which we fail to forgive one another.

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‘What Modern Christian Writers Are Actually Going To Stick Around?’ – Andy Nixon, Brandi Horton, Kaitlyn Bowie Hankins, & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 14 Mar 2019 13:00:00 +0000

A C.S. Lewis fan wonders what authors since Lewis will last, which is exactly the sort of question that Brandi and Kaitlyn love answering, and lead the group on a number of different rabbit trails considering the current state of Christian writing.

“Brandi Reports Back From General Conference, and ‘Why Won’t You Preach From The Whole Bible?’” - Andy Nixon, Brandi Horton, Kaitlyn Bowie Hankins, & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 07 Mar 2019 14:00:00 +0000

After Brandi (reluctantly) gives an update from a very messy General Conference, the group dives into a follow-up question a listener had about why there are sections of the Bible we don’t choose to preach from.

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“Does Experiencing Awe Give You a Better Life?” - Andy Nixon, Ken Coneby, Kaitlyn Bowie Hankins, & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 28 Feb 2019 14:00:00 +0000

Responding to an article discussing how experiencing awe is good for you, the gang discusses whether it’s possible to force experiencing awe, and the benefits of religion. Plus, Andy and Ben bicker over whether “Bohemian Rhapsody” is a good movie or not (it isn’t!), Kaitlyn picks her Best Picture winner, and Ben makes the case why you should see “Roma.”

(https://www.nbcnews.com/better/lifestyle/why-scientists-say-experiencing-awe-can-help-you-live-your-ncna961826)

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“Were The ‘Gods Among Men’ Real, Or Is Part of the Bible Just Made Up?” - Andy Nixon, Brandi Horton, Kaitlyn Bowie Hankins, & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 21 Feb 2019 14:00:00 +0000

The group takes on their very first question - one they have put off for MONTHS - and go into exploring the Biblical accounts of the Nephilim. But, to their surprise, it ends up being one of their most fun conversations! Plus, by the end of it, Andy has rebranded himself as a Millennial, so you know things have gone off the rails.

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"Why Do We Make A Big Deal About Sex Before Marriage?" - Andy Nixon, Anthony Rogers, Kaitlyn Bowie Hankins, & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 14 Feb 2019 14:00:00 +0000

Kaitlyn returns, and we celebrate by giving her a question she absolutely does not want to answer. But once the group starts to take the question seriously, everyone is surprised to find that they have a lot to say.

Also! This question is a plea to please send in more questions! Any sort of question. We've answered a lot of questions about human sexuality and we would like to talk about something else!

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‘Who’s To Blame For John Chau’s Death?’ - Andy Nixon, Anthony Rogers, Ken Coneby, & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 07 Feb 2019 14:00:00 +0000

The group discusses the tragic death of young missionary John Chau, who traveled to try and convert the Sentinelese people and was killed for his efforts, resulting in an online firestorm centered around martyrdom, American exceptionalism, and the role mission organizations are supposed to play.

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‘What Things Made For God’s Glory Do You Love?’ – Andy Nixon, Brandi Horton, & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 31 Jan 2019 14:00:00 +0000

After a Source In The City talk about how we, too, are creators, someone wants to know what the group’s favorite things are that are made for the glory of God. The list spans the globe, covers all genres, and at one point Andy makes a pun so bad Ben covers his head in his hands and can’t go on.

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ASK ME ANYTHING: 'How Do We Know Who To Give Money To?' - Andy Nixon, Brandi Horton, Ann Spears & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Fri, 25 Jan 2019 12:37:00 +0000

Every is back from vacation! It's time to sit down and take a question on where we (as a church? as individuals? It wasn't clear, so we answered both) give our money, and how we're supposed to decide such a thing when there's so many places in need in this world.

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'When Choosing A Worship Service, Are The People Or The Worship More Important?' - Andy Nixon, Brandi Horton & Ken Coneby

Ben Wyman — Thu, 17 Jan 2019 14:00:00 +0000

This week's question asks, "when choosing a worship service, is it more important to be filled by the people in attedance or the worship itself?"

Andy, Brandi, and Ken give some guidelines on what to consider when "church shopping" and discuss some misconceptions about what worship should be, while also venturing down a rabbit hole to examine what the idea of being '"fed" by worship really means.

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'Why Do Bad Things Happen To Good People?' - Andy Nixon & Brandi Horton

Ben Wyman — Thu, 10 Jan 2019 14:00:00 +0000

Andy and Brandi kick off the new season by hijacking this week's AMA question and discussing the importance of generosity, while also tackling the classic question "why do bad things happen to good people?"

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‘Does Not Believing Everything In the Bible Make Me A Heretic? (Christmas Version)’ - Andy Nixon, Brandi Horton, Kaitlyn Bowie Hankins, & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 20 Dec 2018 14:00:00 +0000

The question has been asked before, but there’s still a lot to unpack - what is it that’s necessary to believe in order to not be a heretic? And what do we need to keep about the Christmas story?

The group gets into common misperceptions and the way our misinterpretation of the Christmas story doesn’t mean we’re getting the point of it wrong.

Here’s the article Kaitlyn mentions. (Link: https://www.christianitytoday.com/history/2018/december/putting-christ-back-in-christmas-not-enough-nativity-americ.html)

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'Wait, What's The Point of John Wesley?' - Andy Nixon, Brandi Horton, Kaitlyn Bowie Hankins, & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 13 Dec 2018 14:00:00 +0000

After referencing John Wesley last week, a new listener asks about the importance of Wesley, and whether the group could give him a starting point on Wesley's ministry and sermons. Unsurprisingly, Kaitlyn and Brandi are INCREDIBLY excited about this prospect.

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Here's links to the sermons referenced in this podcast: On Working Out Our Own Salvation (link: http://spokanevalleychurch.org/core/files/spokanevalleychurch/uploads/files/Wesley's_On_Working_Out_Our_Own_Salvation_Both_Versions.pdf)

The Scripture Way of Salvation (link: https://www.umcmission.org/Find-Resources/John-Wesley-Sermons/Sermon-43-The-Scripture-Way-of-Salvation)

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‘Do You Believe In Angels?’ – Andy Nixon, Brandi Horton, Kaitlyn Bowie Hankins, & Ben Wyman

Ben Wyman — Thu, 06 Dec 2018 21:55:00 +0000

A woman who had a profound experience with a stranger who told her that she had seen Jesus walking besides her wanted to know: do we believe in angels? Do we think that the person she met could have been an angel?

It’s a question that group hadn’t considered before, and so there’s discussion of the nature of angels in scripture, the presence of the Divine in every day life, and how American culture affects what we think we can and can’t believe.

Ask us a question, or send us feedback! This, plus every AMA episode, is available at FMHouston.com/AMA.